Creating Your Holiday

One of the gifts of Compassionate/ Nonviolent Communication is utilizing our knowledge of needs to empower ourselves to live our values. We can choose to create our experience by focusing our actions to be in alignment with what we would like in the world. When needs are met, we feel more joyful, satisfied, and peaceful.

Here’s one example of using intentions and actions to create what you want:

  1. Self-Care. Do your best to stay well-rested and relaxed. Prepare for being with others by listening to music, resting, taking a walk, meditating, etc., so your system will support your peaceful heart and your intentions.

  2. Focus on what needs/ values you want to meet, what experience you would like to have. Set your intention and your actions. For example:

    • Self-compassion. Acknowledge your feelings/ needs with friendly caring and without judgment. If you are tired or stressed…

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